7 Psychological Tricks to Make Yourself Happy Today

Jun 19, 2025

By Will Moore

Imagine spending your entire life chasing happiness, only to discover you've been running in the wrong direction. Think about it. Most people chase happiness through shopping, social media, or Netflix binges. But science shows these quick fixes are cheap dopamine – they spike your mood, then leave you feeling worse than before.

I learned this the hard way. I spent my teenage years devouring self-help books, desperately searching for answers. After reading dozens of books and testing techniques on myself, I discovered something crucial: we're getting dopamine from all the wrong places.

The real breakthrough came when I realized we need to shift our dopamine source from quick fixes to habits that actually help us grow. Instead of the temporary high from scrolling social media, imagine getting that same dopamine hit from tiny habits that build your relationships, career, health, and mindset simultaneously.

Here's the game-changer: these small habits compound exponentially across all core areas of your life. The good news? Your brain can be trained to be happier using simple, science-backed methods. Just like building muscle at the gym, you can strengthen your happiness through specific psychological tricks to make yourself happy that you can start using today

In this guide, you'll learn:

Seven science-backed techniques to boost your happiness levels today
Easy ways to make these techniques automatic
A free system to track your progress

Ready to discover how to create lasting happiness? Let's begin.

Can You Really Trick Yourself Into Being Happy?

Before diving into specific techniques, let's address the elephant in the room: Can you actually trick yourself into being happy? The short answer is yes – but not in the way most people think.

The word "trick" might make it sound like we're talking about fake-it-till-you-make-it positivity or forcing yourself to smile. That's not what works. Instead, you can strategically rewire your brain's happiness circuits using proven psychological techniques that feel natural and sustainable.

Here's what most people don't realize: Your brain is constantly being "programmed" anyway – by social media algorithms designed to keep you scrolling, by marketing messages that make you feel inadequate, and by stress patterns that become automatic. The question isn't whether your brain can be influenced, but whether you'll take control of that process or let it happen by accident.

The science backs this up: Your brain has a "negativity bias" that automatically focuses on problems and threats. But neuroscience shows your brain is "neuroplastic" – meaning you can literally rewire it through consistent practice. The techniques you'll learn work because they create new neural pathways that make positive thinking and healthy behaviors more automatic.

7 Science-Backed Psychological Tricks to Make Yourself Happy

1. Write 3 Things You are Grateful For

Ever notice how most people focus on what's wrong instead of what's right? Here's the game-changer:

Dr. Robert Emmons from UC Davis conducted a landmark study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology where participants who wrote down three things they were grateful for each week were 25% happier and reported better sleep quality compared to those who focused on hassles or neutral events.

Why It Works: Your brain can't focus on positive and negative thoughts at the same time. When you practice living in gratitude, you're literally forcing your mind to find the good in your life, creating new neural pathways that make positivity automatic.

To stick with it:

Make it Obvious: Place a notebook by your bed or keep the gratitude app front screen of your mobile. Use an app like Grateful or Reflectly, which sends gentle daily reminders and lets you quickly jot down what you're thankful for, making gratitude a consistent part of your routine.

Make it Easy: Start small - 30 seconds is enough at first. Each morning, write down three specific things you're grateful for. Be detailed: Instead of "my family," write "the way my daughter laughed during breakfast."

Make it Fun/Rewarding: Link it to something you already do (like drinking morning coffee). This technique is known as habit bundling. Learn more about it: Habit Bundling Hacks: How to Develop Good Habits Easily.

2. Limit Your Daily Screen Time

Your phone might be making you unhappier than you realize. The average person checks their phone 96 times per day and spends over 7 hours looking at screens - and research shows this digital overload is directly linked to decreased happiness and increased anxiety.

A 2018 study published in the Journal of Social and Clinical Psychology found that limiting social media use to 30 minutes per day for just one week led to reduced loneliness and depression. Participants reported feeling significantly happier and more present in their daily lives.

Why It Works: Constant screen time floods your brain with artificial dopamine hits that make real-life experiences feel less rewarding. When you limit digital stimulation, your brain recalibrates to find joy in everyday moments - conversations, nature, and simple activities become more satisfying.

How to Make It Stick:

Make it Obvious: Put your phone in another room during meals and family time. Use analog alarm clocks instead of your phone to avoid morning scroll sessions.
Make it Easy: Start with "phone-free zones" - designate your bedroom and dining table as no-phone areas. Set specific times to check messages rather than constantly throughout the day.
Make it Fun/Rewarding: Replace mindless scrolling with activities you actually enjoy - read a book, call a friend, or take a walk. Track how you feel on low-screen days versus high-screen days.

MUST READ: What are Digital Habits

3. Apply the 5-Minute Connection Rule

As Dr. Robert Waldinger from Harvard's longevity study puts it: "Personal connection creates mental and emotional stimulation, which are automatic mood boosters, while isolation is a mood buster."

The same Harvard study found that people with strong social connections were 50% more likely to live longer and had significantly lower rates of depression and cognitive decline. Additionally, research shows that performing acts of kindness releases oxytocin and activates the same reward centers in your brain as receiving kindness.

Commit to having at least one meaningful 5-minute interaction with someone important to you every single day. This isn't about small talk - it's about genuine connection where you're fully present, engaged, and looking for ways to show kindness or support.

Why It Works: Human brains are wired for connection and generosity. When you spend quality time with people you care about and actively look for ways to help or show kindness, your body releases oxytocin - the "feel good" hormone that reduces stress and boosts your mood. Even brief but meaningful connections trigger this response.

To stick with this habit:

Make it Obvious: Add key relationship check-ins to your calendar—schedule regular calls with family, coffee dates with friends, and important birthdays or anniversaries.

Make it Easy: Ask meaningful questions beyond "How are you?" and share something you're excited about. Be a good listener. Focus on quality over quantity - even a five-minute genuine connection can strengthen a relationship.

Make it Fun/Rewarding: Start a weekly ritual like Sunday family calls or walking meetups with friends. Put your phone away during these interactions to ensure full presence. Share something you're excited about or grateful for. Use technology to your advantage by setting reminders for birthdays, anniversaries, and other significant dates, making it easier to stay consistently engaged in your relationships.

4. Try the 10-Minute Movement Boost

Here's a surprising fact: Just 10 minutes of physical activity can boost your happiness more effectively than many medications.

Why It Works: Exercise floods your brain with endorphins, natural mood lifters that reduce stress and increase well-being. But you don't need to run marathons or spend hours at the gym. Even light movement makes a big difference.

Here's a surprising fact: A 2018 study in The Lancet Psychiatry analyzing data from 1.2 million Americans found that just 10 minutes of physical activity can boost your happiness more effectively than many medications.

The study showed that people who exercised had 1.5 fewer days of poor mental health per month compared to those who didn't exercise. The sweet spot was 3-5 times per week for 30-60 minutes, but even 10 minutes showed significant benefits. Research also shows that exercising in nature provides additional mood benefits compared to indoor exercise.

Why It Works: Exercise floods your brain with endorphins, natural mood lifters that reduce stress and increase well-being. The 10-minute threshold appears to be the minimum effective dose for triggering these neurochemical changes. When you exercise outdoors, you get the added benefits of fresh air, natural light, and connection with green spaces.

How to Make It Stick:

Make it Obvious: Lay out your workout clothes the night before and place your sneakers by the door. Identify nearby parks, trails, or green spaces where you can move your body.
Make it Easy: Start with just 10 minutes of movement daily - take outdoor walks instead of indoor treadmills, do jumping jacks in your backyard, or stretch on your balcony. Choose outdoor options whenever possible.
Make it Fun/Rewarding: Create an energizing playlist that you only listen to during your 10-minute movement sessions. Schedule it at the same time each day, and prioritize activities like walking in parks, hiking trails, or exercising in your garden. Use the Habit Tracker app to track your daily movement habits and keep you motivated and disciplined with reminders.

5. Master the 15-Minute Wind-Down Routine

Most people don't realize that getting enough sleep directly impacts your happiness levels. Poor sleep can make you more sensitive to negative emotions and reduce your ability to experience joy.

A 2020 study in Sleep Medicine Reviews found that well-rested individuals experience 31% higher levels of happiness and are better able to manage stress. Consistent sleep supports your body's natural circadian rhythm, helping to stabilize mood and energy levels.

Create a consistent 15-minute pre-sleep ritual that signals to your brain it's time to rest. This might include gentle stretching, reading, journaling, or meditation - but no screens or stimulating activities.

Why It Works: When you follow the same wind-down routine each night, your body learns to anticipate sleep and begins releasing melatonin naturally. This routine helps transition your nervous system from the day's stress into rest mode.

How to Make It Stick:

Make it Obvious: Create a sleep sanctuary by keeping your bedroom cool, dark, and clutter-free. Set up your wind-down materials (book, journal, etc.) in a visible bedside location.
Make it Easy: Choose 2-3 simple activities for your routine: perhaps 5 minutes of gentle stretching, 5 minutes of reading, and 5 minutes of deep breathing.
Make it Fun/Rewarding: Create a cozy ritual you look forward to - use lavender essential oils, listen to calming music, or enjoy caffeine-free herbal tea. Set automatic phone reminders to start your routine at the same time each night.

6. Find Your Natural Flow State

Ever lose track of time doing something you enjoy? That's called the "flow state," and it's a powerful source of happiness. The key is identifying which activities naturally create this state for you.

The Research: Dr. Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi's pioneering research on flow states found that people who regularly engage in flow activities report 40% higher well-being and significantly lower stress levels. Flow occurs when you're fully absorbed in an activity that challenges you just enough to keep you engaged.

How to Find Your Flow State: Look for activities where you experience these three elements: (1) You lose track of time, (2) You feel completely focused and absorbed, (3) The activity feels naturally rewarding, not forced. Common flow activities include creative pursuits, sports, reading, cooking, or skilled work that matches your abilities.

Why It Works: Engaging in flow activities releases dopamine, a "feel-good" chemical in the brain that boosts motivation and happiness. When you're in flow, your brain enters a state of effortless concentration that naturally reduces stress and anxiety.

How to Make It Stick:

Make it Obvious: Create a dedicated space for your flow activities, whether it's a reading nook, craft corner, or music station. Keep equipment and supplies visible and easily accessible.
Make it Easy: Start with 20-30 minutes of uninterrupted time for your chosen activity. Turn off notifications and prepare your space beforehand to remove potential distractions.
Make it Fun/Rewarding: Experiment with different activities until you find ones that make you forget to check your phone. Document your experiences to identify patterns, and block out specific times in your calendar for these activities.

7. Use the 5-5-5 Stress Method

Your body isn't designed to handle constant stress, but learning to manage it through self-care practices can dramatically improve your mood and overall health. Remember, taking care of your mental health isn't selfish - it's essential.

The Research: A 2021 meta-analysis in Clinical Psychology Review examining 58 studies found that people who practiced regular stress management techniques experienced a 28% reduction in anxiety and a 34% improvement in mood compared to control groups.

The 5-5-5 Stress Method: When you feel overwhelmed, stop and practice this self-care technique by engaging your senses: name 5 things you can see, 5 things you can hear, and 5 things you can physically feel (like your feet on the ground or the texture of your clothing). This grounds you in the present moment and interrupts the stress response.

Why It Works: This technique activates your parasympathetic nervous system (rest and digest mode) and pulls your attention away from stressful thoughts. By engaging your senses, you're essentially telling your brain that you're safe in the current moment. It's a form of self-compassion that helps you respond to stress with kindness rather than harsh self-criticism.

How to Make It Stick:

Make it Obvious: Write "5-5-5" on a sticky note and place it somewhere you'll see when stressed - your computer monitor, car dashboard, or bathroom mirror.
Make it Easy: Practice the method during calm moments so it becomes automatic during stress. The entire process takes less than 60 seconds once you're familiar with it. Be gentle with yourself as you learn this new habit.
Make it Fun/Rewarding: Create a "calm down kit" with items that pleasantly engage your senses—maybe a favorite tea, a scented candle, or calming music. Track your stress levels and celebrate when you successfully use the method as an act of self-care.

Important Note: These techniques are based on positive psychology research and personal development principles. They are not intended to replace professional mental health treatment. If you're experiencing persistent depression, anxiety, or other mental health concerns, please consult with a qualified mental health professional.

How to Make Myself Happy When Depressed

Depression affects brain chemistry, not just mood, so traditional happiness advice often falls short. Start impossibly small with micro-activities: write one thing you're grateful for, walk to your mailbox, or text one person you care about. Research shows these 1-2 minute actions can improve mood over time.

Focus on three priorities first: sleep consistency (depression disrupts sleep, worsening everything), gentle movement (even 5 minutes affects brain chemistry), and professional support (essential healthcare, not weakness). Seek help if you experience persistent hopelessness lasting two weeks or more, loss of interest in activities, self-harm thoughts, or difficulty functioning in daily life. Crisis resources include 988 for suicide prevention and texting HOME to 741741 for crisis support.

Choosing the Right Psychological Tricks to Make Yourself Happy Using AI

Here's how to create your personalized plan:

1. Assess Your Current Factors: Create these simple lists:

Lifestyle Factors (Example: work schedule, family commitments, morning person/night owl)

Strengths (Example: creativity, organization, communication)

Passions (Example: reading, outdoor activities, cooking)

2. Use This AI Prompt Template:

"I want to increase my happiness by using techniques that fit my life. Here are my details:

[Insert your lists from above]

Please suggest the top 3 happiness-boosting techniques for me, considering:

My daily schedule and energy patterns
Activities I naturally enjoy
Current stress levels and well being
Available time for new habits"

3. Analyze AI Recommendations:

Review the suggestions and choose the one that:

Feels most natural to start
Fits easily into your current routine
Excites you to try
Addresses your biggest happiness challenge

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You now have seven powerful tools to increase your happiness. But knowing isn't enough - you need a system to make these changes stick.

The Moore Momentum System combines all these techniques into one simple, science-backed approach. It uses AI technology to personalize your journey and make habit-building feel like a game you actually want to play.

Take the Core Values Quiz to find out how happy and balanced you truly are across the 5 Core Areas of Life. This quick quiz will reveal where you’re thriving and where there’s room to grow, setting you up for a powerful momentum shift toward lasting happiness.

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