WILL Moore

The Trick to Develop A Growth Mindset -Never Say Die!

The Trick to Developing a Growth  Mindset –

Never Say Die!

 

“It’s our time down here” Don’t recognize that quote? I’ll give you an easier hint: “Goonies never say die!” 

   

The Goonies has got to be one of my favorite movies ever! It’s filled with adventure, danger, and hidden treasures. That was little Will’s biggest dream back in 1985. While I do still love the thrill of it all, what I love about The Goonies now is what it can teach us.

 

 

Haven’t seen it? First off, get as far away from me as possible (kidding, kidding). The movie follows a group of kids who find an old treasure map in the attic of their house—which they are about to lose thanks to a developing company attempting to replace it with a country club.

 

 

The kids follow the map and encounter booby traps and other dangers to find a forgotten pirate ship. They also end up meeting a character named Sloth, who teaches you not to judge a book by its cover. 

 

 

This movie is an absolute classic for lots of reasons—it includes pirates, a cool group of characters, and an unforgettable adventure. But what truly makes it great is that the kids believe in the unbelievable. 

 

 

They chase after a relic in hopes of finding gold and discover impossible wonder, but they never stop believing. 

 

 

They believe that by setting a goal, they can reach it regardless of any hurdles in their path. They know how to develop a growth mindset because they already have. The adults in the film don’t believe anymore, but the kids have the ability to use their mindset to push through to find the truth. 

 

Maybe we all just need to start doing the truffle shuffle, just like Chunk. If we do that, maybe we can begin to understand just how to develop a growth mindset

 

Just like in The Goonies, adults in our world have lost their spark. 

 

Because they’ve grown up, they’ve stopped believing that they can influence the impossible. Kids have that belief naturally. My son, Wyatt, is one of those kids. He’s only a toddler, but he’s definitely not giving in to victim culture. 

 

Though he’s never had to learn how to develop a growth mindset, he’s got it downpat. He goes through his days just living happily. He strives to find joy and sets small goals without even considering it, like not walking on cracks in the sidewalk or playing with a toy. He doesn’t lay around worrying about how or when to do things. He just does them. 

 

 

So, Are You Ready To Learn How To Develop a Growth Mindset?

 

 

It’s hard sometimes as an adult to feel some of that magic you felt when you were a kid. But, just like The Goonies, you can go from being stuck as victims of the universe to having a growth-owner mindset. 

 

 

We go through life trying to fit in with society. Our friends, family, coworkers, and so many others all affect the way we live our lives. But, just like some of us, they’ve lost touch with their growth mindsets. 

 

 

They aren’t trying to keep you in a victim loop, but those mindsets can seep into your own easily when you’ve lost the sparkle you felt as a kid. So, how do you remove that cycle of doubt and disbelief to learn how to develop a growth mindset?

 

 

You can start with some advice from one of the best growth-owners I know: Wyatt. He gets excited with every little accomplishment he has. So, what if someone says: “Don’t touch that toy” or “stay off the sidewalk”

 

 

Seems plausible right? We’ve been denied our wants all the time in life, and we may have even done the denying every here and then (I know I have). I’ve learned that instead of having a negative outlook, I can use it as a tool for learning how to develop a growth mindset. By immediately scolding him for exploring, I’ll make him lose that wonder that is key to his success. 

 

 

Instead of making him feel bad for following an instinct to try new things, I can uplift him. If I don’t want him to go on a certain adventure, I can cut in and negotiate. If I didn’t want him to play with a specific toy for example:

 

 

“Hey buddy, right now it isn’t playtime. We’ll play after dinner.” 

 

By saying this instead of shutting him down, he is assured and unafraid to take new chances. This is imperative when knowing how to develop a growth mindset

 

 

The difference between “absolutely not” and “not right this second” is small, but extremely meaningful. Wyatt can continue to make the impossible possible, just like The Goonies. 

 

 

Sure, I hear what you’re saying—”How does this help me, Will, I’m not a child.” Well, you’ve been told “no” so many times in life that you’ve developed a doubtful mentality. You are capable of knowing how to develop a growth mindset, it’s all up to you. 

 

 

It starts with breaking your fixed-victim mindset, pushing through to be the growth-owner you’ve always wanted to be—just like little Wyatt. 

 

Need Another Helpful Tip?

 

One way to start your mission with how to develop a growth mindset is to come up with 3 things you enjoyed when you were little. Especially if those things made you feel special or accomplished in some way. 

 

 

It’s not always easy to build up success habits. Much like setting up dominoes, you can’t always see the big picture until it’s complete. But those small goals you’re making for yourself add up to aid you in your growth journey leading to success and happiness. By doing this, you’ll know how to develop a growth mindset in no time

 

 

Are You Ready To Do The Truffle Shuffle? 

 

Want to know where you stand in the five values of life tied to happiness (Your 5 Cores), take this two minute Core Values Quiz to get your core score in the five values of life.

Do You Know the Secret of How To Live a Profoundly Happy Life?

 

Do You Know the Secret of

How to Live a Profoundly Happy Life?

Use this Happiness Hack to Create Balance, Empathy, and Peace in Your Life

   

If I’ve imparted anything that’s stuck with you since we first crossed paths, I hope it’s that now you know it’s absolutely vital to your happiness that you continually dedicate yourself to building up your 5 cores. Your personal core values really set the stage for the rest of your life and well-being. But how do you add gas to the flame that fires up your five cores and blasts you into the big, bold beautiful sky where everything is clear and balanced? 

 

The one word answer: gratitude. When going about your day, it’s easy to forget to take a minute to think about how incredibly grateful you are for all that you have. By doing this, you’ll be building positive momentum that not only contributes to your personal core values, but to your overall health and wellbeing as well. Gratitude changes your whole perspective on life. Instead of letting your inner fixed victim focus on what you don’t have, your inner growth owner starts to focus on what you DO have. And that, my friends, is a beautiful thing! 

 

You heard me right – Thinking about what you’re grateful for every day, even for just a moment, can allow you to break through your fixed-victim mindset to find success. I practice this myself every single day and I wouldn’t trade it for the world. Every day I repeat a gratitude mantra and then I recall the top things I’m grateful for in my life, which are usually a result of my personal core values. For example:

 

  • Family. I am beyond happy to have them, and I couldn’t do it without their support. I am grateful for their health as well as my own. 
  • Imagination. It can be so easy to get down on myself sometimes, but I’m so glad I have the ability to see the world through a brighter lens. Creativity is key!
  • My willpower. I was able to pick myself up and find happiness through action. I am grateful every day for my perseverance.

So, How Does Gratitude Apply To Your Personal Core Values

 

 

By practicing gratitude, you’ll be looking at life from a new angle: that of a growth-owner. This means considering things around you as stepping stones to a radiant future, rather than seeing them as weights holding you down. By focusing on seeing life through a more positive lens, you’ll be fueling your personal core values more and more. 

 

This ensures that you get through your day feeling good! Too often people lose momentum in the middle of the day and just feel stuck. Practicing gratitude will give you that extra push you need to feel like you’re still moving forward when you should be. 

 

 

Many people have personal core values that involve family or friends. Well, did you know that being grateful could help you when it comes to compassion? Through that same growth-owner mindset we see people as treasured pieces of our lives rather than nuisances. Further, by showing them how grateful you are for their company, your relationship core can be boosted!

 

 

It also helps when other people get you down. You don’t need to get out there and seek revenge or get into a “why me?” mindset. You’re just grateful you’ve got everything you need and know that the person who made you feel less than is probably in the wrong mindset. Gratitude helps give you the empathy you need to get past these situations without losing your momentum

 

 

Applying Gratitude In Life

 

 

Don’t believe me? Well, let me tell you what happened to me at the gym. One of my favorite activities I like to do to stay active is basketball. I go to my local gym to play, and the same group of guys is there almost every time. 

 

Now, I get along awesome with these guysall except one. For some reason, every time I go to the gym to play this guy scowls at me as if I’ve killed his dog. At first, I turned inward, wondering what I’d done. 

 

But, one day I went to play, and he looked as if he had been having a tougher day than usual. Despite that, we were on the same team that day and he really pulled through to help us out. I wanted to try to bridge the disconnect between us by sharing my gratitude with him. 

 

So, I went right on up and said, “Thanks for your help on the court today. You are truly the reason we were able to do so well today.” And guess what? He smiled. The man who had seemed like he hated my guts for weeks smiled. All because I showed him that I was grateful for his help. 

 

THIS is how practicing gratitude can enhance your personal core values. By doing it daily, even in small doses, you’ll be building up positive momentum that helps you grow. So, take a moment today to think about what you’re grateful for and shout it from the rooftops!

 

 

Let’s Keep The Momentum Train Moving

 

Want to know where you stand in the five values of life tied to happiness (Your 5 Cores), take this two minute Core Values Quiz to get your core score in the five values of life.